Thursday, December 11, 2008
Thursday Thoughts
I think one of the highlights for me was having all 3 kids go through the temple at the same time. You teach your children and you plan for the day when they can be worthy to go through the temple and not once did I ever expect that they would all go through at the same time. It was such a spiritual experience, pure heaven on earth. I can't even express the joy I felt as that day unfolded. My cup runneth over.
Then to have a daughter get married to the right man, in the right place, at the right time, was priceless. We just love Jesse so much. He served a mission here in Ohio and we met him then about 7 years ago. He was our favorite elder. We kept in touch with him and watched him get married, have a child and then a divorce. I never in my wildest dreams thought that he would ever be my son in law. BUT, I am so glad that he is. He has a darling little boy , Porter, that we love so much. We are so glad to be able to be a part of Porter's life as well.
Then to have the experience of sending not one, but two children on a mission is amazing. David is now serving in Ottowa, Canada and loving it. He went into the MTC a week after Mackenzie got married. Then about a month later, Abby went into the MTC. When we dropped Abby off and we were getting the luggage out of the car, we heard someone say, "how's it going?" and we turned around and it was David!! We all immediately started crying and hugging. He looked so good and kept telling us to keep it down because he wasn't supposed to be out there! It was amazing to see him, he was so happy and you could just feel of the spirit he had. When he hurried off back into the building that he came from there were about 25 missionaries waving and yelling to us from the doorway!They had apparently been waiting 1/2 hour for us to arrive. It was well worth breaking that one rule!!! It was so good to see him.
It was great to have Abby and David in the MTC together. They sent pics and wrote letters of seeing each other. They had the same P-day, so they would meet up in the laundry room and do laundry, hang out and write letters. Abby will be leaving on Dec 30th to head to Spokane Washington. She will be speaking Spanish and David is speaking French. So exciting!
So alot has happened, all of it good. I feel so exhausted, happy, tired, joyful, blessed, sad, peaceful all at the same time of the events of the last few months.... i really think my kids were seeing how far they could push me over the edge, throwing all this at me at once.... he he he. They forget, I raised them, I know what they're like.
For all my boys
"The girl you marry will take a terrible chance on you. She will give her all to the young man she marries. He will largely determine the remainder of her life. She will even surrender her name to his name? There is another serious thing to which many young men become addicted. This is anger. With the least provocation they explode into tantrums of uncontrolled rage. It is pitiful to see someone so weak. But even worse, they are prone to lose all sense of reason and do things which bring later regret.
If you have a temper, now is the time to learn to control it. The more you do so while you are young, the more easily it will happen. Let no member of this Church ever lose control of himself in such an unnecessary and vicious manner. Let him bring to his marriage words of peace and composure.
I constantly deal with those cases of members of the Church who have been married in the temple and who later divorce and then apply for a cancellation of their temple sealing. When first married, they are full of great expectations, with a wonderful spirit of happiness. But the flower of love fades in an atmosphere of criticism and carping, of mean words and uncontrolled anger. Love flies out the window as contention enters. I repeat, my brethren, if any of you young men have trouble controlling your temper, I plead with you to begin the work of making that correction now. Otherwise you will bring only tears and sorrow into the homes which you will someday establish?
The girl who marries you?will wish to be married to someone who loves her, who trusts her, who walks beside her, who is her very best friend and companion. She will wish to be married to someone who encourages her in her Church activity and in community activities which will help her to develop her talents and make a greater contribution to society. She will want to be married to someone who has a sense of service to others, who is disposed to contribute to the Church and to other good causes. She will wish to be married to someone who loves the Lord and seeks to do His will."
"Living Worthy of the Girl You Will Someday Marry," Ensign, May 1998, 49-51
Awesome Experience
David and Travis Sommers
At the baptism
This just makes me smile
My Girls
Kenzie and her man Jesse
Abbys Birthday Present
SKYDIVING!!
signing thier lives away
"De Plane! De Plane!"
Hanging out
waiting for the skydivers to go
Should I stay or should I go?
Red nails for the occassion
Abby and Dave
The Suit
Ready for flight
Comin' down to earth
Dave making a landing
The Sky Divers!
Abby, Instructor Chuck and Dave
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